How Do I Kiss?

Do you ask yourself, "How do I kiss?" Do you view kissing as a ritual which needs proper techniques and methods you must follow? Or is it a spur of the moment practice for you so experiments or anything will do?

However you view kissing, how you would kiss will still be dependent on different factors. How you would kiss will vary based on location, occasion, and who you are kissing.

Location

If you wonder, "How do I kiss?", the answer lies in where it is going to be done and also when. At night where the dark conceals a few things, kissing may be done more liberally than during the day. A more secluded spot is a better choice over public places for more privacy.

In public places, a simple and pleasurable kiss is tolerable. Some may call it basic kissing. Other types which involve open lips and the tongue are better off on a more private location. This type of kissing is popularly called "French kissing." With open lips, tongues will explore each other. Other types involve sucking and nipping. Both which also needs lips to be parted. Suck kissing maybe done for a few seconds before you switch to another method. Suck your partner's upper or lip with your own lips. Nipping is a follow through for sucking. Simply bite your partner's lips gently after sucking.

Occasion

The types of passionate kisses mentioned above can already answer the question, "How do I kiss?" But if you want to know more, then occasion is the next important factor to consider aside from location.

You should be more discreet during first dates. Your first kiss should neither be too passionate or mediocre. You are trying to build a good impression to the other person. If he is worth a second date, a basic yet meaningful kiss which will accomplish such goal.

A passionate kiss will become a must once you become constant dates. The same applies to engaged or married couples. This kind of kiss is an occasional one for these types of couples. In fact, it can even be done on an everyday basis.

Person

The person you are kissing also makes a difference if you still ask yourself, "How do I kiss?" For first timers, the basic type of kiss is recommended. Once the awkward feeling goes away, you can progress to more passionate kisses.

Your partner's personality is also a consideration. French kissing may not be a good idea if your boyfriend or girlfriend is conservative in nature. Forcing someone into something they are not comfortable with just to get what you want is inconsiderate.

Other Factors

Other important factors to consider are related to etiquette. Consider the other person's feelings and how you will be perceived by him or her due to little things. Bad breath is a major turn off. Make sure to bring a breath spray or breath mints for an unexpected, surprise kiss. Moisten your lips before kissing. If you can use a lip balm or moisturizer, it will be so much better.

Kissing is a pleasurable experience. Yet it involves a few considerations on where and when it is done, why it is done, and who it is done with. When you have these in mind, kissing becomes at its utmost for you and your partner.



Do you ask yourself, "How do I kiss?" Do you view kissing as a ritual which needs proper techniques and methods you must follow? Or is it a spur of the moment practice for you so experiments or anything will do?

However you view kissing, how you would kiss will still be dependent on different factors. How you would kiss will vary based on location, occasion, and who you are kissing.

Location

If you wonder, "How do I kiss?", the answer lies in where it is going to be done and also when. At night where the dark conceals a few things, kissing may be done more liberally than during the day. A more secluded spot is a better choice over public places for more privacy.

In public places, a simple and pleasurable kiss is tolerable. Some may call it basic kissing. Other types which involve open lips and the tongue are better off on a more private location. This type of kissing is popularly called "French kissing." With open lips, tongues will explore each other. Other types involve sucking and nipping. Both which also needs lips to be parted. Suck kissing maybe done for a few seconds before you switch to another method. Suck your partner's upper or lip with your own lips. Nipping is a follow through for sucking. Simply bite your partner's lips gently after sucking.

Occasion

The types of passionate kisses mentioned above can already answer the question, "How do I kiss?" But if you want to know more, then occasion is the next important factor to consider aside from location.

You should be more discreet during first dates. Your first kiss should neither be too passionate or mediocre. You are trying to build a good impression to the other person. If he is worth a second date, a basic yet meaningful kiss which will accomplish such goal.

A passionate kiss will become a must once you become constant dates. The same applies to engaged or married couples. This kind of kiss is an occasional one for these types of couples. In fact, it can even be done on an everyday basis.

Person

The person you are kissing also makes a difference if you still ask yourself, "How do I kiss?" For first timers, the basic type of kiss is recommended. Once the awkward feeling goes away, you can progress to more passionate kisses.

Your partner's personality is also a consideration. French kissing may not be a good idea if your boyfriend or girlfriend is conservative in nature. Forcing someone into something they are not comfortable with just to get what you want is inconsiderate.

Other Factors

Other important factors to consider are related to etiquette. Consider the other person's feelings and how you will be perceived by him or her due to little things. Bad breath is a major turn off. Make sure to bring a breath spray or breath mints for an unexpected, surprise kiss. Moisten your lips before kissing. If you can use a lip balm or moisturizer, it will be so much better.

Kissing is a pleasurable experience. Yet it involves a few considerations on where and when it is done, why it is done, and who it is done with. When you have these in mind, kissing becomes at its utmost for you and your partner.Tina L. Jones