How to Use Kissing to Create Sexual Chemistry and Desire

Many people overlook the importance of kissing when it comes to creating sexual chemistry and desire. But make no mistake about it, nothing is a bigger turn off than a bad kisser. So if you want to become a better lover, you first need to learn the subtle art of kissing.

The first thing that you need to do is learn how to tell if a woman is ready to be kissed and you can do this by looking out for her subtle body cues. If she is not ready to be kissed yet, you need to do something to get her level of arousal up before you go any further.

The most common body cues that you should look out for are pupil dilation and protruding lower lips. The more dilated her pupils are, the more she is interested in you. When her lower lip starts protruding or pouting its a signal she is extremely interested and sexually aroused.

One of the things that really turns women on is the build up and the sexual tension that comes from wondering what the first kiss is going to be like. So knowing when she is ready to be kissed is essential if you want to increase her arousal and create sexual chemistry.

The most important thing to remember when kissing is to pay attention. Instead of focusing on how you are kissing her, you should focus more on how she is kissing you. Notice how much pressure she is using when she kisses you and what kind of force she is exerting with her lips.

As well as this, you also need to notice the configuration of her lips and whether she opens them very wide or keeps them close together. Its important to take your time and not rush. Just kiss her gently and allow yourself to feel how she is kissing you.

To create the perfect kiss, cup her head with both of your hands and slowly move her face in towards yours. As you do this, you need to look into her eyes and then gently kiss her lips as lightly as you can. Make sure that you pay attention to the way she kisses you and then kiss her back exactly the same way.

By doing this, you validate her model of kissing and you demonstrate that you are just like her. This creates sexual chemistry and tells her mind, body, and emotions that its okay to go to the next level. Kissing her this way will deepen the connection you have for one another and this in turn will increase her desire for you.

It does take practice, but once you have mastered the subtle art of kissing you will be able to arouse any woman you desire. Its just a case of paying attention and reacting to what she does. Doing this will show that you are compatible and this will often lead to a more fulfilling and exciting sexual encounter. Andy Edmonds