If you are like many girls, you often find yourself day dreaming about the boy that you like and about kissing him. If the thought of kissing him scares you, it does not need to. Kissing is very easy once you know how to do it. So, if you are planning to be kissing a boy for the first time soon, these tips can help you when the time comes.
1. Calm down. You will be feeling a range of emotions from excitement to fear. Know that this is completely normal and expected. Do not rush into anything that you do not think you are ready for. If you are not ready to have your first kiss then wait. If you have an idea of what your first kiss should be and this is not what you dreamt of, and then wait. You will have many opportunities to have your first kiss and if it does not feel right, then wait. There are many people who have waited until their wedding day to have their first kiss, if that is what you dream of, so you can wait.
2. If you are ready, then you will want to be in a private place for your first kiss. After all, you do not want onlookers cheering you or the boy you are kiss on and you definitely do not want other boys thinking they can kiss you after he does. Remember, this is your first kiss and you will not get another one, so make certain it is in private because this will help avoid any embarrassing first kiss issues, like bumping heads or sneezing on him.
3. When you are alone, move slowly. You may want to cuddle or talk first. You may even want to just look at each other for a while. Hold hands and smile at him. If it does not feel right here, do not do it. You
will be nervous, but if you feel like something is wrong, then go home. You may not know what it is that feels wrong, but trust your instincts. If it feels right, then you may want to kiss him. If you rush things, you may regret it later.
4. When you two finally kiss, try to remember all the sensations and feelings you have. You will not get to redo this kiss, so the memory of it will be important to you. While you are kissing, you may not know what to do with your hands. You can wrap them around his neck or hold his face gently, or push your hands through his hair slowly, if he has hair. If he does not, the neck or face option is the best. You can also hold his waist, but that can get a little awkward if he wants to break off the kiss before you do. If you cannot think of any place to put your hands, leave them at your sides.
It may seem a little weird at first, but once you get into the kiss, you will know what to do with them. Whatever you do, try not to hit him when you are moving your hands. That would absolutely kill the mood.
Now that you have the basics, have fun kissing a boy for the first time. Karina_Sinclair
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