Believe it or not, but kissing techniques can be mastered without a learning partner. Kissing is like dancing - it's an art that relies both on passion and technique.
Step 1 on How to Kiss a Guy - Use foreplay.
Most people assume that kissing is already foreplay, and that's technically true. Kissing could act as foreplay to sex, but there are other things you can do that could also serve as foreplay or a prelude to kissing. And no, it's not sex.
Rather, it's flirting. Make your eyes, hands, and the rest of your body work. Whisper sexy stuff to your guy like how you can't wait to taste his lips or how much you want to be in his arms. Trace his lips with your fingers - do whatever strikes your fancy as long as it heightens the anticipation between you.
Step 2 on How to Kiss a Guy - Choose the right moment.
Trust your instincts to know when it's the perfect moment to kiss your guy. Sometimes, it's better to surprise him. Other times, you should deliberately hide yourselves from view or tell him to look for a private place where you could kiss him freely.
Step 3 on How to Kiss a Guy - Play the tease.
Don't go for the lips right away. Remember: kisses taste better when they're anticipated and savored. So take your time and don't be in any rush. Kiss his cheek. Kiss his nose. Kiss the corner of his lips. And for that matter, kissing is not the only thing you can do. You can also try biting and licking. Don't be shy to do it. This is the guy you like and he likes you back. It's perfectly natural to be affectionate and passionate about him.
Step 4 on How to Kiss a Guy - Start slowly.
Naturally, you can't play the tease forever. Again, you'll have to trust your instincts to know when it's the right time to finally have your lips touch his. When you do so, don't kiss him too hard or too long right away. Give yourself time to savor the texture and taste of his lips.
Step 5 on How to Kiss a Guy - Take and relinquish control.
At this point, pay attention to how your guy's acting. See if he wants to take control or if he's willing to let you stay in command. Either way is fine. Kissing is all about giving and taking. If he wants to take control then be submissive and let him do the work this time. If he wants you to continue dictating where and how your kiss goes then proceed to the next step.
Step 6 on How to Kiss a Guy - Take it to the next level.
Pull back first. Stare into each other eyes while you catch your breath. Press yourself closer to him. When both of you can't bear any being apart any longer, that's the time you should kiss him again. This time, take it to the next level. Be passionate and everything else will fall into place.
Tina L. Jones
this seems to help a lot thanks
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